Nothing can break a relationship more than boredom.
It’s easy to fall into routines with your partner. Similar to studies, work or going to the gym or eating out, sex is essential to a healthy relationship, but it can also be boring and routine. If that happens, you and your partner will begin to look elsewhere for excitement.
Do not allow this to happen to your love life!
The Bad Girls Bible will teach you everything you need to know about how to keep things going In the meantime, these 14 sex hacks can give you a good beginning to eliminate boredom from your relationship and sex lives. Let’s get it down:
1. Find out about new sexual positions
This is the simplest to do, and also one of the most effective methods of keeping things exciting. This is why I came up with this Sex Positions section of the Bad Girls Bible. It includes pictures and thorough explanations of more than 100 different sexual positions.
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If you’ve never tried taking the lead before in bed you might feel slightly nervous about doing this. However, your partner will surely enjoy the experience. I guarantee it.
It is recommended to test some of the positions that are easier to master that don’t require a lot of flexibility and are simple to change to.
2. Discover His Favorite Things (And Yours too!)
Everybody has fantasies about sexuality. Everyone!
The issue for many is that they believe their fantasies are strange or a little out there. They might not want to share with their partner their fantasies because of the fear of embarrassment or perhaps their partner thinking they’re strange.
Your man is likely to be thinking the exact same idea!
There are certain ideas or experiences which you are attracted however you don’t have the chance to experience them in the real world.
3. Dominating, Exploring Your Self-Respecting Side
The majority of relationships have one person who is slightly dominant, while the other is more submissive.
It’s not in the sense of D/S of the term. However, in the sense that one of the partners is more eager to experiment with new ideas and change positions or even engage one another in sexual sex.
One method to spice things up is to switch up your character when you next get on the couch with your partner.
If he’s usually the one to switch positions then you must take him out and switch positions instead. (make sure you try some new positions as well!)
Perhaps he is the one who initiates sexual sex. Try being the one to cause the most trouble?
Perhaps you are more likely to start with foreplay. You can try holding off until he responds.
4. Pinch His Ass
This is possibly the most absurd sexually explicit tip you’ll ever get from me. However, it really works.
When you’re leaving your partner when you are leaning into him to kiss him, immediately grab his bum. You can grab it with your fingers or smack it, or simply grasp it with your hands.
Be sure to make it quick However, don’t talk about it.
Don’t be able to explain when he inquires about why you made the mistake.
Smile at him.
If you’re a man It can be a bit complicated, but it’s an indication that you love him. It also indicates that you could be very naughty.
Beware: You shouldn’t use this daily or even every week. Use it only once per month to keep things flirty and fun.
5. Utilize Sex Toys
Sexy toys are excellent. Particularly if you are looking to make things more exciting. There’s a sex toy for every situation. For him, for her. For his penis, and for your the clitoris.
Utilizing sex toys in foreplay can be a great way to make one another hot and irritated prior to sex. They are also great in lieu of sex, and also during sexual activity as well.
However, as I have advised in all the advice you’ve read: if you only rely on sex toys, things will eventually become boring and routine.
One way to look at sexual toys is to see them as a condiment and not as the main dish.
In the coming weeks, I’ll be adding an article on which sex toys are the most effective and how to make use of them.
6. Get In The Shower With Him!
This easy sex trick is like pinching his sexual organs. You should use it sparingly in order to be effective.
When your husband takes a shower, be sure to follow him one minute later. Then, you’ll have the option of what you should do:
There is nothing to do except clean him. It’s surprisingly sexually attractive!
You can give him a blow-up. Put a towel on your knees when you do this, as your knees will become very painful.
It’s possible to have sexual relations. However, shampoo and water will quickly dry out the natural lubrication system.
7. Build anticipation
The reason sex can be boring and dull is that there’s no anticipation or anticipation, and there is no tension prior to having sexual relations with your partner. It’s simply a routine (for the majority of couples, it’s at least once a day or every evening).
To break free from this routine, you can build anticipation for something that he’s not anticipating. If you’re on vacation with your friends, send a text message to your lover and tell him that you miss him (and how hot that you’re).
Inform him of what you plan to discuss with him, using anal balls, once you get back. In detail…
This isn’t just for those who are in vacation. It is possible to test it when you are leaving to go to work or school.
Note: As with other sexual tips, you should try to limit your use of this tip otherwise it could become boring very quickly.
8. Dressing up for Him
Dressing for your man is a basic’sex tip. In a way , it’s similar to the previous sex advice, “Building Anticipation’.
When I refer to “Dressing up for Him” I don’t necessarily refer to dressing in costumes or wearing super-slutty clothing.
In other words, I am talking about wearing something that is provocative. Something that makes him think twice. Something that will remind him of the reason he loves you so very much.
It could be a dress which is a bit shorter than normal, a dress that’s cut lower or something else that highlights your best features.
9. Watch Porn Together
Listen to me! I completely understand if you dislike porn and wish to stay clear of this practice completely.
There is a myth that women love porn while men dislike porn. It’s not true.
I believe this is a more precise method of describing the stereotype:
The majority of women dislike ‘conventional’ pornography.
What is conventional pornography? Pornography that is degrading to women, with men treating women as dirt and put a smudge on their faces in the end.
If you do a search for it, you’ll discover porn that is different from this.
If you’re not convinced by the thought of watching porn with your partner Don’t think that you must.
10. Request Directions
Requesting directions when you are really looking to satisfy your partner, regardless of whether you’re giving him a blowjob, a handjob, or engaging in sexual activity is a wise choice if you are looking to get better fast.
However, don’t directly ask him questions.
Don’t say:
Do you think that’s okay?
I’m not quite sure what I’m doing however I hope you enjoy this.
An alternative method to ask for direction’ would be to offer the person a choice or make a suggestion.
Are you a handjob person or a blowjob?
I’m betting you’re the type of person who enjoys playing his balls by…
You look like the type of person who enjoys being at the top and at the top of his game…
I can assure you that I like doggystyle sexual sex…
Certain people find this to be a breeze, while others find it a little more difficult. However, once you’ve asked to be directed’ you’ll quickly find out what your man likes the most. He’ll be more likely to reciprocate!
11. Talk Dirty
Disguising your partner’s dirty talk can be extremely powerful. This is why there’s an entire chapter of The Bad Girls Bible devoted to speaking dirty and the powerful dirty-talking tutorial video I made to help you get up to speed fast. Watch it here.
Instead of rehashing the same information in the talk dirty section, you should take the time to look it up for yourself.
If you don’t know about the benefits of speaking dirty, lots of women love it because it is a way to keep your lover constantly towards you and thinking of your presence when you’re not in the vicinity.