There’s no need to follow the path of Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele to have fun having fun at home! Sexy toys can bring an entirely new dimension to your relationship and create a connection stronger, whether you think it is or it’s not.
Sexual sex that is better
Who doesn’t desire more fun sexual intimacy What couple doesn’t want more fun sex!? “Everyone could benefit from more sex , and it’s good,” says Stacy Rybchin of My Secret Luxury. “Sex tools allow couples to have fun and offer a variety of fun sexual experiences within the intimacy. If your sexual behavior is fun and playful, your sexual experience is more satisfying.”
Extra orgasms!
Do you realize that approximately 75% of females don’t achieve orgasmic sex through penetration and that nearly 50 percent of them have attempted to fake”the “Big O” at least once? According to Rybchin it’s true! “If you play with sex toys and you are asexual, the odds of getting an orgasm will increase significantly. The majority of women require the stimulation of their clitoral system to get orgasmic. This is why sexual toys (vibrators particularly) are a great way to assist you in climaxing.” It’s clear that the most effective sex is one that includes an orgasm for every partner, isn’t it?
No pressure
Some men feel like they are not worthy and insignificant when they see sex toys being used in the bedroom. However many feel they’re no longer put under pressure to do their job, says relationship expert and writer April Masini of AskApril.com. This will definitely improve your relationship. Take it slow. “If you are worried that your partner is likely to be frightened or resentful of your suggestion to use a clitoral stimulator do not take it out of a container when you’re naked. Begin to discuss it slowly at a time in other settings like coffee at the coffee shop,” she suggests. “And do not present it as an all-or-nothing proposal. There’s nothing that is more sexually threatening than having a partner say”OK, here’s what we’re going to do the next time.’”
Intimacy benefits
Women are often unhappy with their bodies. This can lead to issues with intimacy as noted by Rybchin. “Using sexual toy toys during sexual activities can lessen the fear of being naked and to create more intimate relationships.” In the event that your spouse isn’t comfortable let them reject the sexual aid or toy and don’t be discouraged according to Masini. “Let those who reject the aid or toy feel like they are in control in their decision. Also, be ready to let the idea go. Do not be scared to mention it next time around within a few weeks, but in a different manner to see if it’s a possibility,” she says. “For instance, if the person you love is great mood or is happy over something you’ve done something generous about then remind them that you’d like to test something only once, whenever they’re willing.”